Friday, August 26, 2011

75 Things A Man Should Do For His Sweetheart

As life takes you through your ups and downs in each situation you are in, with each type of people, I have learned that if you are not happy with the one you love, if they are not happy with you, or you just want to keep things beautiful between the two of you you must do something. I guess you can call it being proactive, keeping the fire burning, becoming better for her, etc.



Thank you to all of those that suggested when I asked. The exact number of 75 was not planned it just came out this way.


  1. Give her flowers just because
  2. Giver her a single rose
  3. Get her a flower you found on the way home/to her place
  4. Give her a massage
  5. Give her a foot massage
  6. Brush her hair
  7. Do the dishes
  8. Cook and clean up afterwards
  9. Make her a CD
  1. Make a playlist on her mp3 player
  1. Compliment her on how she looks
  2. Give her favorite candy
  3. Compliment her in front of other people
  4. Take her car out for a surprise car wash
  5. Leave a note on her car/door before she leaves for the day
  1. Don't always watch sports with her
  1. Watch a chick flick or something that she fancies
  1. Hold her hand in public
  1. Dance with her in the kitchen (or a real dance hall)
  2. Clean her car out
  3. Wear her favorite cologne
  1. Tell her you love her and mean it
  1. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
  2. Bring her lunch while she is at work
  3. Brush her hair out of her face
  4. Dedicate a song to her
  1. Walk in the rain together
  1. Kiss her goodnight
  1. Candle lit dinner
  1. Do a word search together
  1. Create a little story and build off of it each night
  1. Push  her while she is on a swing (don't push her otherwise…)
  1. Make a scrapbook of the two of you
  2. Make a slideshow with a meaningful song in the back ground
  3. Do some service together
  1. Write a love poem for her
  1. Write a silly poem for her
  2. When she's leaving on a trip, leave notes in her jacket or suitcase
  1. Let her wear your jacket/sweatshirt
  1. Paint her toe nails (make sure there is nail polish remover nearby, just in case)
  2. Always be proud of her and tell her
  3. Listen to her when she talks
  4. Fill up her tank of gas
  1. Call for no reason
  1. Ask how her family is
  1. Tell her a really lame joke and think it's the best one ever
  1. Wait for her to be seated before you sit for a meal at the table
  1. Pick up whatever she may drop
  1. Be friends with her friends
  1. Send her a letter in the mail
  1. Admit when you are wrong
  1. Tell her why she inspires you
  1. Open the car door for her when you go out
  1. Write notes on her favorite cereal box
  1. Get an altoid tin box and fill it with strips of paper with things like about her
  1. Hold her close with your arms around her
  1. Send a text of encouraging words
  1. Make a note with gummy worms about something cute about her
  1. Write on the door step with sidewalk chalk of something she'll love
  1. Spray paint something cute about her on a shirt and wear it (or have her wear it)
  1. Make a coupon book  with things she likes that you do: dishes, date night, movie of her choice, etc.
  1. Give her a Love Check Book.  It's ok for her to be in debt with these.
  1. Make a little scavenger hunt around the house and have it leading to a present or something she'd love
  1. Make homemade chocolate covered strawberries just for fun
  1. Sing her a song with or without accompaniment sweeping her off her feet (i.e. dancing)
  1. Let her choose the restaurant for a date
  1. Leave her a piece of chocolate or candy that's as "sweet as she is"
  1. Make a princess crown and call her 'princess' the whole day (if you don't already)
  1. Create a "sweet thoughts" jar and add to it frequently
  1. Create a "Bad Day Box" filled with sentimental things and each bad day she has she can pull out two items to remind her of how much you love her
  1. Put up a picture of you and her on the fridge or on her wall unexpectedly (make sure it's a picture she likes).
  1. If she is taking a test, give her a smartie candy with a note to wish her luck or give her a congratulations
  1. Set the screen saver to say something just for her
  1. Make a personalized rubics cube so that not only do the colors match up but each way it says a word
  1. Create a personal calendar with each day filled with something nice you can do for her

Any other suggestions? Please comment and post! If you'd like, count how many of these things you have done. 



1 comment:

  1. what's a "love check book"? oh, and #65 should say, "...feet."
    Fun post!

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